Why???

SOME QUESTIONS DON'T HAVE ANSWERS BUT STILL WE TRY TO FIND....


Yes....Some Questions don't have answers..But still we try to think about them and try to find a way to get answers, but what are we going to get from that... some more questions...some more kind of questions....and some more questions....all those questions which have one word in common "why??? " ..which itself doesn't have an answer...
you would have asked at some point of time in your life...

"why does it happened to me?"...The answer is simple because it has to...It's not that nothing happens to you and every other person around you has faced something..(what is this something???)....

you may not have asked yourself these kind of questions when you are around 10 years of age...so when does it actually start...who know?? Not even I.... I started asking these kind of questions when I was 16.... .16???

"O My God!!! What kind of problems do you have at that age which made you to think about these kind of question?" Well it doesn't depends on age....It depends on the maturity level to think ahead of what you have been through...

For Example, "you are 7 or 8 years old. Till that time you were the only one in your family and everyone used to love you a lot...and then comes a small brother in your family and everyone starts shifting their love to that baby. Now what's goes in your mind? What will be the state of mind of that 7 years old boy??And what does he do in order to get back everything that he used to possess?

There could be many instances in your life that you have seen at a very young age which have a strong impact on you and that makes you to grow a bit differently than the other people. Now, We can't just go and force them to say what they have been through and why are they in this state...? Can We....???
Really, Can We really make them speak ??? Can We?? The only thing I can say is "YES, You can...but not the way u used to behave with other people..but in a way that they don't get hurt and enjoy your company.....where he not only believes you but starts believing himself.

Now...you meet a lot of people around you who looks as if the whole world is on their shoulders and they are moving around with a lot of problems in thier pockets...and you get a way to meet one of those kind of people and how would your way of meeting goes on....

"Hello, I am.....How are you?
" I don't know How I am? Ask my heart...? "
"If your heart can answer..why would I answer you?...But do we say this on his face...No Way.." But we can ask him in a way that make him feel much better atlest for that instance of time he enjoys your company...and you don't need to force him to say about what he has been through... One day you will come to know about it... Then may be a Question starts of in your mind..
" Why does something like this happens to such a good person like him? "
"Why god has been so injustice to him? "

The kind of answer that came to my mind when I asked myself... " Its because god wanted him to help others who happens to be in the same state...and make them come out of it... because: When you learn from experiences...you learn in a much better way"

There are a quite different kind of people in this world who has been facing different kind of problems. Everyone has to find a way to find a away to overcome someday or the other rather than waiting for the problems to overcome you..and you start hating yourself and blaming god for not giving what you wanted and made you to go through this kind of Situation.... Now one(I think a few more) more question comes over her...
"Do we really have to blame GOD?"
"Do I have to blame myself for not overcoming this?"

or "Do I have to blame someone who is actually responsible for this..some person who has put you in this state...?"
What would be the answer...?? The answer again is a question which don't really have a right answer but still we try to answer(It depends on your mental state and your physical condition)..."Do we really have to blame??". "Why should we blame?" "Who gave us the right to hurt someone?" If you go on thinking like this you will find a large number of questions which doesn't lead to answers but to more questions...

There are again few other people who can't just handle this and try to end up their life just for one simple reason and one simple answer "I can't handle this anymore..." Again a few Questions....

"If you can't handle...what are we here for?"
"You should have told us and we would have helped you and find a way..." Now "do we have to wait for him to say or do we have to ask him what he has been through?"
"This thought comes in our mind only after something weird happens and a state where the extreme meets the ultimate"

Now...Believe me after all this kind of things happened and you go back home, sit and starts questioning.."Why GOD has been so harsh at him? " Now..
"Is he the only person who has been through that situation?" There are people who are experiencing much more than that and still able to stand and move ahead....

"Lot of Experiences...and lot of thinking...lots of learning....doesn't end up here....Because Every end give rise to a new Beginning...A Beginning which has an end but everything is revolving around circles as someone said.." True love may be in corners....But I am revolving around circles"..."

"Believe me...this is not the end...and believe me that this is not the end of yours..You could have given up everything...But their is someone who is holding everything of yours to give you back every single moment of happiness which you may not have imagined...And believe me I could be the first person to hold everything of yours..."
After writing all this kind of stuff....I am still left with a lot to write but...the point I am going to make here is these are all the kind of experiences that I have been through and the kind of company in which I was and used to be...


They just made me to learn a very good lesson..."no matter who you are...what is on your head that is wetting your toes....you still have to believe and keep faith in you...."

Because "GOD cannot be everywhere ...that's why he made a relationship called friendship...Do you know why it is called friendship....? Life is like an ocean where a friend is a ship who makes you reach your destination...even though he sinks...a part of him will be floating just to keep you alive and it means a simple message....."NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS....THE SHOW MUST GO ON...AND ITS IN YOUR HANDS HOW YOU MAKE THE SHOW MORE ENJOYABLE.."

Many more experiences...many more years to go ...and if you think this is the end....then it is the end of yours....I will just conclude it with one big statement of mine(the whole post is mine...:P)...

Does this means you need to stop questioning as you don't find any answers...?

"No....You have to question.....Stop questioning others and start questioning yourself what would you do when you are in such a situation...and start to find a way to resolve it....because there is lot of difference between solve and resolve...."

"YOU CAN'T SAY TO EVERYONE WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH AND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH....

YOU CAN JUST NAME A FEW WHO CAN SIT BY YOUR SID HOLDING EVERY DROP OF TEARS JUST TO MAKE YOU REALIZE HOW PRECIOUS THEY ARE ...............AND SOMETIMES THOSE TEARS MAY NOT BE YOURS..."

THIS IS NOT THE END....BUT NOT TO ADD SOME PERSONAL EXPERIENCES....
BUT STILL I DEDICATE THIS POST TO ALL THOSE WHO HAS BEEN WITH ME NOT JUST HOLDING EVERY DROP OF TEARS BUT THEY MADE ME HOW PRECIOUS THEY ARE EVEN BEFORE THEY DROP......

AS I SAID EVERY END LEADS TO A NEW BEGINNING. AND EVERY BEGINNING HAS TO END...SOME DAY OR THE OTHER EVEN YOU ARE GOING TO DIE....